Matthew 18:15-20; 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time; If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone

Sharing Guidelines
*Sharing is not a time for teaching or debate; it is a time to sense the marvelous work of the Holy Spirit who leads the gathering.
*Reflection sharing is not meant to teach others but to share the meaning you personally have discovered. Therefore, do not criticize or debate another person’s sharing. Avoid boasting of your own understanding or knowledge.
*Respect the grace of the Holy Spirit, who reveals the meaning of the Word while dwelling among us, and listen attentively to others’ sharing, holding it in your heart.
*Keep confidential any personal reflections or stories shared in the group; practicing brotherly love means not passing along private matters outside the meeting.
*When speaking, always use the first person singular (“I”). Be careful not to distance or generalize your story by using the third person (“he,” “they”) or the first person plural (“we”).
*Keep it short.

Reading 1
Ezekiel 33:7-9
Thus says the LORD:
You, son of man, I have appointed watchman for the house of Israel;
when you hear me say anything, you shall warn them for me.
If I tell the wicked, “O wicked one, you shall surely die, “
and you do not speak out to dissuade the wicked from his way,
the wicked shall die for his guilt,
but I will hold you responsible for his death.
But if you warn the wicked,
trying to turn him from his way,
and he refuses to turn from his way,
he shall die for his guilt,
but you shall save yourself.

-The Word of the Lord – Thanks be to God

Reading 2
Romans 13:8-10
Brothers and sisters:
Owe nothing to anyone, except to love one another;
for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law.
The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery;
you shall not kill; you shall not steal; you shall not covet, “
and whatever other commandment there may be,
are summed up in this saying, namely,
“You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Love does no evil to the neighbor;
hence, love is the fulfillment of the law.

-The Word of the Lord – Thanks be to God

Gospel
Matthew 18:15-20
Jesus said to his disciples:
“If your brother sins against you,
go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.
If he listens to you, you have won over your brother.
If he does not listen,
take one or two others along with you,
so that ‘every fact may be established
on the testimony of two or three witnesses.’
If he refuses to listen to them, tell the church.
If he refuses to listen even to the church,
then treat him as you would a Gentile or a tax collector.
Amen, I say to you,
whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven,
and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
Again, amen, I say to you,
if two of you agree on earth
about anything for which they are to pray,
it shall be granted to them by my heavenly Father.
For where two or three are gathered together in my name,
there am I in the midst of them.”

-The Gospel of the Lord -Praise to you Lord, Jesus Christ

Today’s Reflection

Today’s readings teach us to help a brother or sister who has sinned return to the right path.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus gives us three steps. First, talk to the person privately. Do not embarrass them in front of others. Help them see their mistake and encourage them to repent.If that does not work, bring one or two other people to help. Together, try again to lead the person back to God. If the person still refuses to listen, ask the Church community to help. The Church should do everything it can to help that person return to God. The main point is not to judge or punish, but to give the person every chance to repent and come back to the Father’s love. Correcting someone should never be done to shame them. That only causes anger and hurt. Instead, correction is another way to show love. We correct others because we care about them and want what is best for them.

The Book of Leviticus reminds us of this:

“You shall not bear hatred for your brother in your heart. Though you may have to reprove your fellow man, do not incur sin because of him. Take no revenge and cherish no grudge against your fellow countrymen. You shall love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD.”
(Leviticus 19:17–18)

Think about your own life. Do you give people enough time and opportunity to change? Or do you give up on them too quickly? Do you focus more on exposing their mistakes than helping them grow?

The Letter of James encourages us:

“he should know that whoever brings back a sinner from the error of his way will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins” (James 5:20)

Let us ask God today for a loving heart that helps others return to Him with patience, mercy, and hope.
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Sharing

1. Which word or verse from today’s Gospel touched your heart the most? Please share why.

2. In today’s Gospel, Jesus teaches us to correct someone privately first, then with one or two others, and finally with the support of the Church if necessary.
Do you think this is something that is possible in our faith community today? How do we encourage or guide our brothers and sisters to grow in their faith? If we find it difficult to do so, what do you think prevents us from reaching out with love?

3. We often hear that relying only on human reasoning can lead us away from the Lord. Have you ever thought, “I’m a good person, so I’m doing fine,” and allowed that way of thinking to shape your faith life? Or have you heard others express a similar mindset? Please share your experience.