Matthew 25:1-13; Thirty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time; Behold, the bridegroom! Come out to meet him! Year A

Sharing Guidelines
*Sharing is not a time for teaching or debate; it is a time to sense the marvelous work of the Holy Spirit who leads the gathering.
*Reflection sharing is not meant to teach others but to share the meaning you personally have discovered. Therefore, do not criticize or debate another person’s sharing. Avoid boasting of your own understanding or knowledge.
*Respect the grace of the Holy Spirit, who reveals the meaning of the Word while dwelling among us, and listen attentively to others’ sharing, holding it in your heart.
*Keep confidential any personal reflections or stories shared in the group; practicing brotherly love means not passing along private matters outside the meeting.
*When speaking, always use the first person singular (“I”). Be careful not to distance or generalize your story by using the third person (“he,” “they”) or the first person plural (“we”).
*Keep it short.

Reading 1
Wisdom 6:12-16
Resplendent and unfading is wisdom,
and she is readily perceived by those who love her,
and found by those who seek her.
She hastens to make herself known in anticipation of their desire;
Whoever watches for her at dawn shall not be disappointed,
for he shall find her sitting by his gate.
For taking thought of wisdom is the perfection of prudence,
and whoever for her sake keeps vigil
shall quickly be free from care;
because she makes her own rounds, seeking those worthy of her,
and graciously appears to them in the ways,
and meets them with all solicitude.

-The Word of the Lord – Thanks be to God

Reading 2
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
We do not want you to be unaware, brothers and sisters,
about those who have fallen asleep,
so that you may not grieve like the rest, who have no hope.
For if we believe that Jesus died and rose,
so too will God, through Jesus,
bring with him those who have fallen asleep.
Indeed, we tell you this, on the word of the Lord,
that we who are alive,
who are left until the coming of the Lord,
will surely not precede those who have fallen asleep.
For the Lord himself, with a word of command,
with the voice of an archangel and with the trumpet of God,
will come down from heaven,
and the dead in Christ will rise first.
Then we who are alive, who are left,
will be caught up together with them in the clouds
to meet the Lord in the air.
Thus we shall always be with the Lord.
Therefore, console one another with these words.

-The Word of the Lord – Thanks be to God

Gospel
Matthew 25:1-13
Jesus told his disciples this parable:
“The kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins
who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom.
Five of them were foolish and five were wise.
The foolish ones, when taking their lamps,
brought no oil with them,
but the wise brought flasks of oil with their lamps.
Since the bridegroom was long delayed,
they all became drowsy and fell asleep.
At midnight, there was a cry,
‘Behold, the bridegroom! Come out to meet him!’
Then all those virgins got up and trimmed their lamps.
The foolish ones said to the wise,
‘Give us some of your oil,
for our lamps are going out.’
But the wise ones replied,
‘No, for there may not be enough for us and you.
Go instead to the merchants and buy some for yourselves.’
While they went off to buy it,
the bridegroom came
and those who were ready went into the wedding feast with him.
Then the door was locked.
Afterwards the other virgins came and said,
‘Lord, Lord, open the door for us!’
But he said in reply,
‘Amen, I say to you, I do not know you.’
Therefore, stay awake,
for you know neither the day nor the hour.”

-The Gospel of the Lord -Praise to you Lord, Jesus Christ

Today’s Reflection
The wise virgins enter the wedding feast with the bridegroom, and the door is closed. The foolish virgins stand outside and ask him to open the door, but he does not. Jesus’ words sound rather cold: “I do not know you.” This seems very different from the merciful Jesus we know. We might expect the bridegroom to open the door for the foolish virgins, but he does not. In Jewish tradition, a “closed door” can mean a missed opportunity. The foolish virgins missed their final chance, and they would not have another one.

The parable of the wise and foolish virgins teaches us that we must prepare to enter the Kingdom of Heaven, and that our time to prepare is limited. Like the wise virgins, we must have enough oil to keep our lamps burning. This oil is not something we can borrow from others or buy from them. Like other stories about the end times, this parable reminds us to focus not on the end, but on how we live today. Now is the time to prepare the oil for the wedding feast.

Depending on how we live today, we can become either wise or foolish. A wise person is someone who prepares now. When we think about the meaning of the “closed door,” we realize that we still have time. We can still experience God’s mercy and prepare for the end through the way we live our lives. If we do not miss this opportunity, we are wise. A foolish person is someone who fails to take many opportunities that God gives us.

Let us not miss the opportunities God gives us before the door closes.
(허규 베네딕토 신부)
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Sharing:

1. Let’s share a word or phrase that touched our hearts, or reflect on the Bible reading from these different perspectives:
– From the perspective of the wise virgins
– From the perspective of the foolish virgins
– From the perspective of the bridegroom

2. How do I prepare for the Lord and live my life differently to be ready for Him? If I am not doing this yet, how would I like to prepare for the Lord?

3. There is a practice called “bringing death into the present.” It means thinking about death now so that we can see who we truly are. If next week were the last week of my life, what could I do for the Lord, my family, and my friends? Let’s share our thoughts.

4. Based on today’s Gospel reading, how should I live my life from now on?